I took it into my head to do some spare-time research into the father of one of my musical heroines, last night. In truth, I already know enough for my purposes, but I thought it would be nice to see if I could find out any more.
Victorian Militaria? Don’t Even Go There!
He was a Trumpet Major, right? And then a drill sergeant in Scotland, in retirement. I wondered what his uniforms looked like – an illustration might come in useful in a presentation one day, so why not find out? I googled. I searched eBay. Did I want to buy a hat badge? Well, tempting as it was, I thought I probably did not. And I searched beyond eBay. Then I came to a magnificent, shiny helmet with a scary-looking spike on top. It was for sale – but I didn’t want to buy the thing, just to read the vendor’s description to see if it really was the kind of headgear he might have worn either in active service or in ‘retirement’. I clicked. And – because I wasn’t using this laptop but another one – I was prevented from seeing the item at all. Apparent a shiny nineteenth century helmet counts as weaponry. Well, I know the spike looked terrifying, but it was on top of a piece of headgear. No matter – I don’t want to get myself in trouble, so I didn’t persist, and quietly tiptoed away from the beautiful shiny, silver distraction. I can’t even find the same picture today – even on my own laptop – so I can’t show you it. All I can say is, look at pictures of Victorian militaria at your peril!
Instead, I bought a book about his regiment. This is how I end up learning so many weird and wonderful facts!
Where and When?!
Today, I decided I’d try another line of enquiry. Since I’ve been unable to trace the death of the Trumpet Major’s wife, I wondered if the family might have arranged for her to be buried beside him in Lanark. But can I trace his grave? I cannot. I could try a bit harder, or I could return to Lanark and physically look at gravestones – but I’m not making any plans just now. It’s their music and poetry that interest me, really, not their final resting places.
Or might she have gone to live with one of her children? She certainly wasn’t with Rose in 1901, though Rose and her husband were presumably living with her at the time of their marriage in 1898, since the address is the same, and it was usual to marry at the bride’s family home. This makes me think she might have died between those years. Or she could have died somewhere other than Glasgow. One son had married in England, for a start. It’s a puzzle. Inconsequential, but infuriating!
Maybe another day will bring another search inspiration. Until then – as I said, I really do know quite enough for my purposes!
*picture from eBay
















